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Rejection is a bitch?
I was reading a post from another group and an Dating Devil couple sort of complained they were rejected from another Dating Devil couple. This got me thinking... are there any reported cases of people dieing of rejection?  If so, I think the human race would have been brought to extinction
My question is, were you ever rejected from another Dating Devil couple or single? Did you manage to survive the horrible ordeal of being rejected? Please bare all and tell us about it. Hey, if you were on the pitching end, how did you tell them? Were you nice, or did you have to be blunt and tell them to fawk off? |
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Hey..........not everyone is compatible and each have their own likes and dislikes. Just because we are all part of the lifestyle doesnt mean we have to play with everyone that contacts us.....and vice versa.... This isnt high scchool and we are all adults.. Get over it!! There is someone for everyone........... | ||
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In a perfect world we would all look like Greek Gods and have the stamina of porn stars. But alas this is the real world and not all of us are attracted to each other.
We have met some incredibly hot people over the years only to find that is the only thing they had going for them. Then there are those we have met and not really considered as play partners until we got to know them.
Regardless if we are heading to the clubs or to a one on one we go with no preconcieved notion that we or them are actually going to hit it off. We really appreciate it when people are open and honest with us upfront about their sexual attraction.
By no means do we think we are all that...we like to think we are a good looking couple but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Sure it can sting to be rejected but you cannot be in this lifestyle and not be ready to be rejected.
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Rejection comes with the territory as a single male here. Fortunately, most times an email is simply ignored. Personally, I will take a polite rejection if I'm not what someone is looking for over being jerked around and led on, only to be stood up or ignored later on down the line.
Chemistry is huge for me, so although I usually go into first meetings with a good idea of attraction, I try not to take anything for granting until meeting face to face.
If I find myself not interested in someone, I will simply let them know that I'm not interested in pursuing anything and wish them luck in their search for playfriends. | ||
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Like others in this lifestyle, we have rejected people in person by phone and by e-mail. We have also been rejected in various ways, and behold we have survived. What we do not like is when you meet a couple and then you never hear from them again. We can take a hint but, please be respectful and let the couples you meet if you are or are not interested. | ||
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Is rejection the bitch??? |
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