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bobbert_Suffolk
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Should I say something Number 4
Actually, this isn't a dilemma... More an info dump.

I often get asked about condoms and lube - some married guys have no clue as it's bareback with the Mrs!

Firstly bareback = raw = no condoms used! The guy usually relies upon the Mrs to deal with any self or added lubrication she may need!

With ANY casual sex, condoms should be used as the girl/guy is only as 'clean' as their last fuck. Symptoms of some STI's can be delayed or not appear at all, even though the other party is infected.

Also... as few guys douche before sex with guys, the condom keeps his pooh off of your cock! *shudders*

THOSE CUT GUYS out there who claim not to have enough sensation so want to go raw... DON"T!! And don't be conned into allowing it!!!

Anyway... condoms come in various shapes/finishes and sizes. Most are lubricated. They are mostly latex, a few now in poly[something] which is like wearing a carrier bag but for the latex intolerant it's better than nothing. You could go the the extreme of lambs skin but you need a lottery win for those.

Just go for regular shape [ not ribbed etc ] - ALWAYS make sure it's NOT spermacidely lubricated as the Nonoxyl 9 stuff is an irritant up the ass! Sort yourself out a size which fits you comfortably. I'm an 'average' but prefer a looser fit so I wear a Large. I know an extra-large who like to be constricted so he wears a Trim.... Decide what works and take them with you on any meets.

The lube on condoms is not enough unless the passion is really high, the guy has 'taken' cock before and you go easy. So a tube/bottle/sachet of lube is essential. Again, pick something which doesn't irritate - especially on 2nd time in and always take it with you. The KY's of the world tend to work, some have added silicone for extra slipiness, some are mainly silicone, some moisturize too. I'd look for a clear liquid which pours like treacle [ molasses ] So it will hold onto your finger when applying it.

How much to use comes with experience. I eye up the cock and pop enough in to suit me. Some will re-wet with spit [should use water] if drying out - others you apply more. Too much and there's not enough friction, to little and comfort vanishes [ just stop and apply a little more or tissue it off off the condom and carry on!

I mention 2nd time in because, if the first fucking left you a little sore, some lubes will then irritate if you go again. The closer to water/gel/silicon mixture you can get, probably the better. Experiement.

Ooh, and guys... have tissues/loo rolls handy for clean-up!

Any questions/observations/corrections?
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