I'm looking for a D/D free, safe sex having, really rough fuck buddy. I am not particularly interested in a relationship, but am open to the possibility of one. You don't need to worry about me becoming all needy and possessive or falling in love with you and I don't want you falling in love with me. I'm after good sex; anything that happens beyond that is gravy. I'm married, happily, he knows about my escapades, and if I want to make love he's the one I go to. I need someone that will fuck the shit out of me, rough, hard, the kind of sex you have with a lover you're really pissed off with. I'm a BDSM Dom but not really looking for a sub here, though I could be interested in one; I'm not looking for a Dom either and have no interst in submitting to someone else, but I do want someone I can figuratively and literally fight for control with. I'm a big girl, if you're not interested in big girls or think you "could handle fucking a big girl but not dating one" I'm really not interested in talking to you. If you don't feel like you want to fuck me from my pic, again I'm not interested. If your'e interested, I'd love to talk to you. I have a special affinity for older men, way older in some cases, though I've nothing against young guys either. Safe sex is required and you have to be D/D free; sounds like overkill but my hubby and I are D/D free and plan on staying that way. Unless we develop a serious relationship there will be no fluid exchange for both our sakes (and for the sakes of anyone else we're fucking). I probably hate condoms more than you do but they are a necessary evil and telling me that "I use condoms with everyone so there's no rea for me to use them with you" will get you put in the iggie bin. If we're going to play it will be safe, accept that and we'll be off on a good foot.