Im a divorced professional...clean, discreet. Searching for a kindred spirit who is looking for a safe partner who enjoys her sexuality and the role it plays in her life and isn't shy about exploring the limits of pleasure and sensuality. i believe P/people should be honest about who they are and what they're looking for, and they SHOULD be picky. i don't think it's a good idea to lower your standards to attract a wider range of responses. For instance, if you're looking for a cyber-type "play mate", or would like to meet someone for part time encountes only, don't be wishy-washy about it. If it is really what Y/you want, it's going to come up at some point in the future, so put those cards on the table right up front... to that end I must confess that I am in no way interested in what many consider "main stream" (if that's possible) 'life-style' folk. I'm of the age and experience that I know that there are certain aspects of BDSM that hold a great attraction for me. That said, I'm not at all interested in attending 'scenes' or 'BDSM' evenings at clubs. I don't own a single piece of leather clothing save for a jacket, and BDSM does not play a central role in my life...just parts of it, already enumerated, I find very, very pleasurable. If you're a female of similar tastes, please say hello.

My Ideal Person she is: intelligent, submissive
she isn't: a doormat

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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