A mature male with a variety of tastes, preferences and fetishes including some minor sexually deviant behaviors; the oddest of which is the immense pleasure I derive from actively pleasurising others. In contrast I completely enjoy watching others interacing and will often withdraw from direct interaction with a group and quietly watch others enjoying each others company. IE: being a Fly on the Wall. To date I have only been involved in three close, long term relationships (Sharon, Dana and Benetta) two of which (Dana and Benetta) were marraiges ending in divorce; however, in each case the friendship is still active or would be if Sharon were still walking this earth. I talk with both Dana and Benetta frequently and visit them in per often. Sexually I have always been an explorer - of sorts... even been a virtual guinia pig from time to time, sometimes for extended periods of time. There is nothing I refuse to talk about, few things I refuse to participate in. The singular exceptions are Pain and Injury. Discussion on the subjects is acceptable, reciept or infliction are out of bounds as are any activities that may health hazards.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a m/f couple wanting another male to join their mix regularly both socially and intimately.

I am looking for partners who communicate clearly and directly; who will tell or show me what they like, want and/or expect of me in any situation and/or activity.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My favorite Fantasy <br><br>
a senario I fantasize about often is being secured in a location
by one while at the same time controlling the restraints
of another whome I hold available for my top to pleasurize.
It is intensely exciting, errotic situation I am without
words to accurately describe. Generally, once I trust
someone regardless of their gender I will never object
or resist being bound at their whim and pleasure.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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