On life...live it to the fullest, I only live once. Keep friends, collect lovers learn from them and maintain a stance that that the deeper it gets the lesser the pain. On being gentle... don't nail it like you're crucifying me for being good, nail it because it is finally home. On kissing... no smoking, use tongue to entice, the juice to to keep it going, and close your eyes please. On sex... I don't try to be the best, because I know I am. Leave no stones unturned, no holes unpoked, every drop saved, And I'm not here to find the man of my dreams... more like to find the man who can make me cum like there's no tomorrow.

My life in bullets:

Living a tailored life as a special girl, I often encounter different reactions and queries. For the most part, most of you will ask what does it mean, and on most occasion I have to deal with insults, rude and hateful comments of who I am and my choice to live my life. And on rare instances, praise and admiration. I take all and deal with them (or not) to my heart's desire. In a nutshell, as a special girl with seemingly ordinary needs, I was given the opportunity to see the world at its best, and at times, worst. The daily battles, the constant struggles, the littlest triumph made it all worth it to be who I am and who I've become... different from the ordinary, special in  many ways and a cut above the rest.

My stats™

 5th in rank among 5 sisters and 1 brother

 As of last count, 4 nephews and 5 nieces

 I love my family unconditionally.

 The only remaining single in the family. Actually, singled out.

 Born of mixed race, paternal side from Spain and maternal side from China, the Philippines, and Spain

 Grew up in the Philippines and migrated to the US 6 years ago

 Fluent in English, Tagalog, Ilongo, with passable Spanish.

 Useless in the morning, sluggish at noon, getting ready in the afternoon, and alive at night

 Lived in three states, namely, Louisiana, Arizona, and California. Visited the 10 biggest US cities. I'm in love with San Diego, have an eternal crush on San Francisco, and absolutely believe that Sedona is magical

 Katrina survivor, traveled for days 10 days after the hurricane struck, broke, and ended up in Phoenix in a 120 deg temp in the middle of summer

 Traveled all over Asia as a UN-WHO researcher. Published research studies on HIV/AIDS and had the opportunity to visit these countries at the threshold of change.

 On SEX: Japan has the most conservative view, Thailand the most liberal, and the Philippines the most carefree and careless. Everyday.

 I collect frogs, of different shapes and configuration.

 Guns don't faze me. I've been through worst, survived a bloody massacre, and bathed in blood to stay alive. Witnessed the greatest love of my life died before my eyes. Yes, I'm ready

 I gave the gentlest and almost painless shot!

 I have a house in Phoenix, a rented place in the bay area, properties in Boracay Island and Manila. Can I afford to keep them? Barely. I have to work more. And spend less

 Musically inclined. I play the guitar, voice passable, sax! I love it. I have 20,000+++ songs in my IPod

 A patient advocate, a compassionate and caring nurse

 Generous and thoughtful to my family and passionate and uninhibited to my lover

 Don't smoke, dont snort, don't drink

  Loves soccer!

 140 lbs. 5 feet 6 inches 25 in waist, smooth, firm, athletic and clean

 Shower 3X a day

 I always find humor in the most mundane and the most trying of situations

 If you've gone this far perusing my otherwise useless pronouncement... and you want to know more... ask away!

 WHEW!

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Up close and personal: I am the 5th of 7 siblings with 5 sisters and 1 brother, I grew up in a conservative environment where fundamental religious values are embraced to fanatical level and being different is considered an anomaly. I grew up cloistered and protected and innocent of the wiles of the world. It was an idyllic place of good vs evil, of religious activities and family gathering centered on the church. Being different didn't help and it was a struggle. To survive, I embraced the idea of tolerance and acceptance. Now, I see the world in a bigger and more open perspective, tolerant of human frailties and patient of man's arrogance and indifference.

Somebody asks me, awhile back, if I'm happy being who I am now and I answered, "I am. I try to be happy, I am a work in progress, and I work for acceptance and love, I strive to be a better person, a daughter to my mother, a sister to my siblings, a doting aunt to my nieces and nephews, loyal to friends, and a lover who knows how to please. I am generous to a fault, slow to anger, unfamiliar to hate."

I am in transition. Scared of the outcome yet forward looking. I want to hold on to things in me that are essential and enhance parts that are as essential. I am doing all these for myself and not for others. Everything gathers in full circle and the world is round, philosophically, and I believe that whatever you do in life for as long as in the end it makes you happy and didn't cause pain and suffering to others, you will be accepted for who you are and what you have become. Judge me not.

My Ideal Person: Wit and intelligence are both innate and learned. But nothing beats a guy whose humor rises above the rest and his openness extends beyond his desires. Somebody whose sexual prowess is as big as his heart and size as impressive as his brain. Sexy means when you open your mouth and something sparkles. Intelligence combined with passion are a lethal combination. That's you.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
I love Nana Muskouri and Nina Simone. I love everything
that has rhythm and easy to the ear.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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